Is She Cheating? The Reasons That Women Cheat

Posted on September 16th, 2008 in Chat monitoring, Miscellaneous | Comments Off

woman cheatingFinding out that someone you are in a relationship is cheating on you can be one of the most traumatic experiences that you will have.  There are some signs that you can look for if you suspect that your girlfriend is not being faithful.

The first thing that you have probably noticed is that she is spending more time away from you.  While this really shouldn’t be a problem, if it is not in her character to do so it can send up some red flags.  If the reasons that she is giving you just don’t make much sense, you should consider that she may be spending time with someone else.

An increased attention to her appearance is often a sign that something is going on behind your back.  Many women pay particular attention to how they look, but if you notice that she is trying to look more alluring then you might have reason to worry.  Take note of the times that she is dressing more provocatively than usual and you might be able to pinpoint when she is meeting with someone else.

Also be aware of how often she hangs up the telephone when you enter a room, or stops chatting online with someone if you are nearby.  These could be times when she is talking to the other person.

sensual woman flirtingThere are a variety of reasons why a woman will cheat on her partner.  Many women cheat because they feel as though they are not getting enough attention at home.  This is not a valid reason, but it is the one that most women will give if they are asked.  Instead of talking about the problem they seek the attention with someone else.

For a man who is going through this traumatic experience, finding out for sure will be the most important thing that he can do.  It is important that you are not jumping to conclusions and are absolutely certain that your partner is seeing someone else.  There are ways that you can track email and chat information very simply with the addition of some simple devices on your shared computer. This software, keyloggers, is able to track every single keyboard click to a file, enabling you to find out exactly what was going on. Find out for sure before you confront her with the issue.

Cheating Women vs. Men Signs

Posted on August 22nd, 2008 in Miscellaneous | Comments Off

Cheating men and women usually have a hard time hiding the fact that they are cheating from their significant other, despite their entire well thought out efforts. In order to hide their cheating, men and women take on new behaviors that they don’t always realize or are hoping their partner will not notice. These new behaviors are often the most tell tale cheating signs that a partner can recognize, and men and women have a few similar signs as well as different ones.

Cheating women, men signsMen and women have some very similar signs that they give off when they are cheating. After all, it is hard to keep up the same routine when you have changed it in order to see someone else on the side. Some of the most tell tale signs of cheating men and women are an irregular schedule, when there never was one before. Excuses usually include the need to work late, out of town business meetings all of a sudden and frequently, repeated overnights at friend’s homes and other changes to a schedule.

Because your cheating partner is spending time with someone new, his or her behavior with you may also change. Sometimes this change will be drastic and very obvious, while other times it can be subtle as they don’t want you to know they are cheating and try hard to keep things the same. Men and women have different ways of changing their behavior towards you and it can include everything from becoming disinterested in you and your life together to no longer showing any forms of affection or sharing intimacy.

While there are no absolute ways to determine if someone is cheating on you, simple signs and extra care given to privacy and secrecy are usually good tells.

Deciding what to do or whether to confront your significant other about your suspicions is an entirely different matter that you need to decide for yourself.