Posted on September 16th, 2008 in Chat monitoring, Miscellaneous | Comments Off
Finding out that someone you are in a relationship is cheating on you can be one of the most traumatic experiences that you will have.Â There are some signs that you can look for if you suspect that your girlfriend is not being faithful.
The first thing that you have probably noticed is that she is spending more time away from you.Â While this really shouldn’t be a problem, if it is not in her character to do so it can send up some red flags.Â If the reasons that she is giving you just don’t make much sense, you should consider that she may be spending time with someone else.
An increased attention to her appearance is often a sign that something is going on behind your back.Â Many women pay particular attention to how they look, but if you notice that she is trying to look more alluring then you might have reason to worry.Â Take note of the times that she is dressing more provocatively than usual and you might be able to pinpoint when she is meeting with someone else.
Also be aware of how often she hangs up the telephone when you enter a room, or stops chatting online with someone if you are nearby.Â These could be times when she is talking to the other person.
There are a variety of reasons why a woman will cheat on her partner.Â Many women cheat because they feel as though they are not getting enough attention at home.Â This is not a valid reason, but it is the one that most women will give if they are asked.Â Instead of talking about the problem they seek the attention with someone else.
For a man who is going through this traumatic experience, finding out for sure will be the most important thing that he can do.Â It is important that you are not jumping to conclusions and are absolutely certain that your partner is seeing someone else.Â There are ways that you can track email and chat information very simply with the addition of some simple devices on your shared computer. This software, keyloggers, is able to track every single keyboard click to a file, enabling you to find out exactly what was going on. Find out for sure before you confront her with the issue.